Trials and errors have made me realise that I am indeed one who has what I would call "the cavemen trouble". Simply put, I am attracted to cavemen-type men. A few characteristics of such cavemen include; possessing a sense of authority/power, self-assured/confident/slightly cocky, tough, apparently unemotional ie. do not cry, candid, unapologetic, and of course manly, very very manly. Such manliness has nothing to do with physique (although an excellent physique is undoubtedly a huge bonus). It's more of an attitude that he carries; the self-assurance, the insatiable confidence, the seriousness he has in his eyes, the single-mindedness he has when he's after a prey...
A friend told me last night, that only a man as such could make me stop and turn my head. Boy she does know me well. I want my guy to be able to take control when he needs to, make certain decisions when he's required to. I don't want a guy who's overly easy-going...I would completely step all over him! Bad I know, but that's a fact.
The problem with my tendency to gravitate towards the cavemen type is the tricky business of differentiating between a dateable caveman and an un-dateable MCP in caveman clothing. The latter is definitely a nono, unless you enjoy being knocked on the head with a big club, dragged into the cave, and then...(use your imagination). I must say I'm still in the process of learning to differentiate between the two. But as my philosophy goes - just go with the flow. I've never set out to look for love; always just letting nature take its course and adopting a que sera sera attitude.
But like I said, I already know myself well enough. I know what I want and what I need. Hence while waiting for love to strike, the vision is clear - only cavemen need apply.
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